About the entire criticsm thing, I have mixed feelings myself. I am 18 years old, so I’ve done some groing up in the past few years. And being a little behind in the social skills both made me experience the use of criticism (I learned a tonne from it that I value greatly.) and how it can fall really bad with the other when you are (or are percieved to be) really harsh. (Yea, it’s about things I said, obviously.)
I since decided the difference in good faith and bad faith lies in the opinion, because …. If someone takes the time to logically lay out (in text, or words or whatever) reasonable arguments to back up their criticisms, then it must be in good faith. Note the “taking the time”, the “logically” and the “reasonable” parts of that definition.
@SirAstrix And I guess a part of where @Logo is tring to come from is that sometimes the tone is really important to how it is percieved. And YES, that sucks, (oh, all the rants I had when I was so much less skilled in the social stuff in the past. Don’t get me started on this.), but it is true that this is sometimes necessary.
But I also acknowledge the value you bring with your criticism. After all, I learned a lot of stuff from criticism that I greatly value.
(Did I screw up by bringing this back up? I hope not. Sorry.)