ok its the first time i have heared of ESET 
… ok has a firewall and you can set own rules. also you can set interactive mode so it will ask for every little file … thats ok ^^
ok give me some time i will test it ^^
edit: ok works fine with stonehearth ^^
Good news for everyone: It started to work with AVG after it’s last update. Maybe they have there a minor (or other severity) bug 
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So now I can run it without need to disable AVG for 10 minutes.
And for ESET: Even after update AVG, that helped, I’m ging to leave it. I have looked for some reviews and maybe it will not be ESET but another one.
when you change then tell me to which program 
at the moment i try ESET smart 8 and it looks nice (very like Avast IS xD)