Multiplayer chicken loading takes forever

two day ago i was playing stonehearth mp perfectly fine with my friends now when we tried to play i could not log into game even tho it took an hour it just says loading into game forever and when i host my friends cant join my game they get same thing happen but they can join each other with no problem at all plz help ive been trying to fix it whole day

has your friend tried pausing the game while you try joining? that might help

yes he did we also tried starting new save and waiting oh btw it worked without no problem yesterday but today it doesnt connect again